Something
weird has happened in the last week. Something that, had I anticipated its
possibility, I would have expected to occur before now – like in the 1990s.
So here it
is: I have become a Gilbert Gottfried fan.
Here’s a
brief summary of how this occurred. I have become a podcast junkie. (Don’t
judge me. Or if you do, at least have the decency not to do it
from behind the same device you use to binge-watch 6 seasons of anything
produced on the CW.) The one I have been focused on lately is The
Moment with Brian Koppelman which I found through The Tim Ferriss Show. Recently,
I was listening to Brian Koppelman’s interview with Amy Schumer in which they
mentioned a previous episode featuring Gilbert Gottfried. And I was like, ew.
Though I didn’t know why. If someone had asked me, “Who is Gilbert Gottfried?”
a few days ago I would have said, “You know, the comedian with the annoying
voice who plays the parrot in Aladdin and voices the AFLAC duck. Well,
we was the AFLAC duck before the company fired him for…something
offensive. I can’t remember what.”
But I’m a
HUGE FAN of Amy Schumer. So I decided, after finishing with her episode, I
would look for the one with Gilbert Gottfried. But I couldn’t find it on
iTunes. So I Googled it and finally found it on ESPN radio of all places. So
there I was, sitting at my desk, listening to a podcast with someone I didn’t
think I liked on a radio station that I would not ordinarily listen to
on purpose.
You know, really challenging the boundaries of my comfort zone.
I pushed play expecting that it wouldn’t hold my interest for more
than 10 minutes and found myself laughing…tears rolling down my face laughing…in
about half that time. Sometimes I was laughing at what was said, but just as
often I was laughing because Brian Koppelman and Gilbert Gotfried were laughing so hard. Every once in a while, the laughter would last a little longer than is considered appropriate in polite company (which was fine because there was nothing polite about it) and it was
literally contagious. I would laugh at the laughter. And then I would laugh at that laughter too.
It was exactly like what happens when you start laughing at church, except that I was alone so there was no one in front of me to turn around a glare at my joy.
Long
story, short…Gottfried has his own podcast, Gilbert Gottfried’s Amazing Colossal
Podcast, on which he shares, along with his generous laughter, stories
about old Hollywood, and hilarious impressions with his guests (sometimes of
his guests) who share the same in return. The laughter is my favorite part –
because it makes me feel awake and full of ideas. After I listen to one of his
podcasts, I am ready to work…99% of the time. Yesterday, I would have
been ready to work were it not for a sick child. (I don’t know how Erma Bombeck
did it.) But the day of not writing became a day of productive thinking
about these two questions:
Why do I
find him funny? And how is it helping me write?
It felt
like it was a pretty good use of time because if I could answer these two
questions well enough, I’d have discovered a secret…THE SECRET…to how
one finds inspiration.
I quickly
figured out that the first question was a waste of time. It’s as elusive as why
some people like Picasso and others prefer Monet. In many respects, humor is an
art and, thus, subjective…despite the assertion by some male comics that “women
aren’t funny”, the allegation by uptight people that Amy Schumer is “gross”, or
the declaration by “the Greatest Generation” that comedy died with Bob Hope. No
one gets to decide what’s funny for everyone.
Not even
Lorne Michaels.
But the
second question was important because its answer might just hold the key to
unlocking my own creative process.
How is the podcast helping me write?
It didn’t
come to me all at once…more like in fits and starts while I was doing dishes or
folding laundry or reading or listening to other podcasts. I would remember
something and then run through the house chanting it to myself until I could get to a piece of paper and a pencil. This went on all day until I finally sat down and
looked at my scribbles trying to make sense of it.
First, I remembered
hearing B.J. Novak break down his writing “process” on Tim Ferriss. It essentially consists of him doing whatever it took -- eating, walking, reading, meditating, whatever -- to put himself into a “really good mood”
so that he can sit down and begin creating. This, along with Jon Hamburg’s
process (discussed on The Moment) which is simply walking around NYC “until
he feels special enough to write” whatever it is that he needs to write. These
ideas resonate with me. I recognize in myself the need to achieve a particular
state of mind before I’m ready to create.
Secondly, I
recently learned the ancient definition of the word humor while reading Brainpickings. I now, of course,
can’t find the article which meant I had to look it up in the dictionary and
hope that it would be there. This is what I found:
HUMORn. 1. the quality of being amusing;
2. a mood or state of mind
v. to indulge or accommodate
Yeah – I got
that. But then THIS:
Historical:each of the four chief fluids of the body (blood, phlegm, yellow bile [choler], and black bile [melancholy]) that were thought to determine a person's physical and mental qualities by the relative proportions in which they were present.
So this is where the phrase “in good
humor” must have originated. It doesn’t mean that someone is laughing a lot, it
means that all of one’s bodily fluids are balanced out so that they can
function amongst the living. Being “of good humor” or having a “good sense of
humor” has evolved to mean that someone can appreciate that which is
funny. Maybe that’s because people are in their best relative states of mind
immediately after a bout of laughter.
Finally, today, I watched a TED
talk by Shawn Achor in which he discussed the relationship between work
success and happiness. He specifically mentioned the neurotransmitter dopamine
and its impact on the brain. You should watch it yourself, but the gist is that
you can give yourself a happiness advantage in whatever your particular
pursuit, if you can make yourself happy before getting down to business. This flips
the script on the conventional wisdom that happiness is the result of success…which
is a constantly moving target…which makes happiness unattainable.
So I wondered about laughter. I’m
pretty happy after I laugh. I wonder if that’s why I’m able to write after I
listen to Gilbert Gottfried.
Is it possible that humor is both art AND science?
I Googled “laughter and dopamine”
and discovered that laughter, like general happiness, also triggers
a dopamine response. Here is my layperson’s summary:
From a physical standpoint, laughter
is associated with improved immune function and cardiovascular health, reduced
stress and anxiety, and increased tolerance for pain. That’s right… laughing
makes you physically healthier than those with no sense of humor and,
apparently, if you can figure out a way to laugh when you are in pain, it might
hurt less.
Laughter also activates the reward
center of the brain that releases dopamine, our body’s natural mood elevator. When
we laugh, our brain releases an appropriate amount of dopamine to create a
natural sense of euphoria. (Drugs also cause the brain to release dopamine, but in inappropriate amounts which cause brain damage, dependence, court-ordered rehab, and, in some cases, death.)
But wait…THERE IS MORE. In his TED
talk, Shawn Achor said that dopamine has not one but TWO effects on the brain.
It not only elevates your mood, it also turns on all the learning centers in
your brain. It allows you to adapt to the world…to process information…differently.
With your brain “at positive” you are actually more intelligent, more creative,
more energetic…all the things B.J
Novak needs to be “in a good mood” or Jon Hamburg needs to “feel special” or I
need to conquer words each day.
But there is potential here that
extends beyond its impact on individual happiness and success. What could a
consistent diet of laughter do for the world? What if we didn’t take ourselves
so damn seriously all the time?
Think of an example of a poorly run organization (school, business, club,
agency, committee, industry…you’re choice) – the worst that you can think of –
and ask yourself what could happen if humor…a fluid…a lubricating elixir with
the power to heal us in every imaginable way…could be injected into the veins
of that system. What could be possible if everyone just took some time to make
themselves laugh?
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